Doula! Maybe the best way to define a doula is by the Greek word from which the term comes: δούλος. Slave. Servant. Maidservant. A doula is a servant to a laboring mother, there to help her achieve the best possible birth experience as the mother sees it. There to provide non-judgmental, non-medical, continuous emotional and physical support, a doula is a tremendously important companion to a laboring woman.